One RSVP per event, not per wedding.
A guest tells you which functions they are coming to, and you get a real headcount for each one.

What a guest sees. Only theirs.
Only the events their household is invited to, in order, with a yes or no for each person. Dietary and custom questions are asked once, not eight times.
No account, no password. One code per household. A guest never sees an event they were not invited to, and never another household. That is enforced in the database, not only hidden on the page.
How we protect it →
Every reply lands live, per event.
The dashboard totals each function separately. 73 invited to the Sangeet, 38 accepted, 13 declined, 22 still to answer.
Recent submissions show which household replied to which event, and when.

Three ways in. No passwords.
Each household gets a short access code that works at shuubh.io/r/your-names. Invitations sent from Shuubh carry a tap-to-open link that skips the code.
A guest who lost both can find your wedding by your first names, if you have switched the finder on.
How guests find their invitation →